DeanoVilla
One Bloody Number
I chose to be straight the first time I gagged on cock. I swore then... never again!!!
randy.stand - 13/5/2013 14:56
Thanks guys
14- haha! Almost 21 now....
Nah hope my input helps Gator with his situation, if I can be of help i will!
The Fear - 13/5/2013 17:24
#ihaveangerissues
gator - 11/5/2013 22:38
I find this hard to talk about but i feel i have to because i'm going fucking mad.My daughter is living with us and moved her girfriend in (yes girlfriend)what the fuck do i do.I love her to bits but i wanted grand kids off her i'm gutted but do i put up with it or fuck her lover off which is what i want to do
randy.stand - 13/5/2013 20:14
All bow down to Skeggy!
Also, The Fear, you don't just have anger issues, you are also now a hashtag ****** for posting a hashtag up above. Shame on you.
I don't take any offence at all especially because in the main your right I am old fashioned and pig headed but chanting at John Terry lol where did that one come from try not to chant too much now as it dose'nt take long before i lose my voice these days.holtelower - 13/5/2013 21:54
Wierd, both posts went.
Gator,
You need to stop being so ***** selfish. You have a daughter who is happy and in love. Unless her girlfriend is some kind of junkie you should be proud of her.
Honestly, this may sound rude, but you did ask for opinions, and my opinion is your type of attitude is archaic and disgraceful, in fact, its homophobic. Think about it, would you come on here and say "what would you do, my daughter is going out with a black man, or a muslim"
Before you say "You are not in my position", I have kids, and to be honest in a couple of years time if one of them has the "coming out" conversation with me, the answer will be "no shit sherlock !" so I do know , and , honestly, I won't give a toss.
As for kids, why ? , I have a gay cousin who has two kids , I have a lesbian friend who has one kid - why does being gay make a difference ?.
Sorry if I sound harsh, but I honestly thought this type of attitude went out in the 80s.
The ironic thing is, I wouldn't mind hazarding a guess you were chanting at John Terry 24 hours ago
Sorry to hear that mate I really am must admit if one of the lads had been gay it would have hit me harder so i can sort of understand your mother.Is it right most certainly not but when you been brought under a certain code it's hard to see the other side but i'm getting there and i'm sure your mother will so just stick in there she's still your mom and most importantly your still her son she will come round she wont want to lose you for ever she's a fool if she does.randy.stand - 13/5/2013 12:54
I'll add my thoughts. I'm at work on my lunch on my iPhone so if there's any spelling mistakes or missed words, that's why.
Can relate a bit actually to your situation. It's tough, a shock probably and tough to take at first but the key factors for me is that she is your daughter and nothing would change that and secondly she wouldn't choose to do this. It's not a choice. No one would choose to be gay, it's a stupid suggestion to say its not. On the moving the other bird in, well that's up to you, it's your house and if you think that's a bit premature then you'd be well within your rights to say its not on.
The main thing I'd say Gator is just dont push her away because its hard to get the relationship back to what it was. This is from past experience. When I came out to my Mom & Dad they were shocked a bit I think but the reaction wasn't too bad. Actually expected the worst from my Mom because she just doesn't think about what she's saying half the time and will criticise anyone who is different to her, that's just my Mom and it used to drive me crazy when she used to start. But I think that my mom especially thought that its just a phase etc which of course it wasn't and it was okay whilst I was single. Problem with my Mom, she expected me to live at home forever and not spread my wings at all. So then I met Rich and it changed, I introduced him to my Mom & Dad and my Mom was a bit funny with it. She told me she disliked him but that was pure rubbish because she'd met him for like half hour and he's probably the most inoffensive lad you could find. She didn't like it because she hadnt thought I was being for real when I came out and was then shocked when I met someone. The next few weeks weren't very smooth at all, she wouldn't let him come to the house and was generally trying to talk me out of being with him. And I'd had enough. And I moved from home into A flat in town with Rich & one of his mates from Uni. The big shame is, she still hasn't come round to it, my dad just goes along with whatever my mom does and I rarely have any contact anymore. Not me that's broke it off, it's them and I used to be quite upset about it really but realised life is too short and as long as I'm happy it's ok. The plan is to move away from Birmingham at the end of this year anyway and so won't have any problems then.
Rambled on a bit but what I'm trying to say is just dont push her away. It can easily be done unfortunately like me and is the worst thing that can happen. Do what you need to do, if you don't like the girlfriend living there too then let her know but just re assure her that you support her etc because it could easily be misunderstood. Hope it all works out well mate.