Let me give a cricket example which destroys everything you've just said.
I was involved with a men's cricket club in Wales...a decent standard club, in fact more than decent. They won the Welsh Cricket Cup on several occasions, hosted international fixtures, had several players who had played for Wales in the World Cup.
And been league champions in a league where other teams included Test players in their line ups at times.
Anyway, we went on tour to Ireland. One of our opponents there had a female club professional (in their men's team). She had captained New Zealand in the Women's World Cup Final and was very very clearly a whole level and more above our team's male players (and their team too).
Point being that at the top level of any sport, women will not have "raw ability" and "lack strength" etc etc. They will be far better than most levels of their male counterparts.
In athletics, very very few men on the planet would be able to run faster than the Women's 100m olympic champion for example. And so on through all such events.