Well first of all, Jose should have said anything to divert attention not to attract it. It came across as a very calculated answer. If he's got the man management skills, he shouldn't need to put pressure on his own players through the media. He should be able to do it one on one or in the safety of the squad dynamic. For me, it also came across as speaking in riddles and personally I think the Spurs fans have had enough of that in the last year or so.
All Jose has done is raise questions about his own track record of bullying players who aren't quite fit. It's also raised question marks about our recruitment team and clearly on the player's minerals. I also see that word "snowflake" has come out again.
To your direct question, Jose should have said one of a couple of things. The first is that the player had a slight groin strain and he didn't think it was worth risking him with our current fixture pile up. He could have also told the white lie and said he took a slight knock in training. He's used both answers a million times in his career and knows the drill.
The player is a kid in a foreign country, on his second manager this season and interestingly 23 years old today :-)