You can hope what you like. Dont presume to tell me what distinctions I can draw or what characteristics I may or may not hold in disdain.
I’m not taking lessons from you on what service personnel may or may not think. I come from a service family and four generations have been in the army or the RAF. Every one of them without exception despise the politicians and yes, members of general public, who use the armed forces as some kind of badge to promote their disgusting brand of nationalism. If you can’t see how their service has been hijacked for other agendas over the last decade then you’re clearly being purposely obtuse, or just incredibly stupid.
My Grandad passed away five years ago. He fought in Greece and Egypt in WW2 and got awarded an MBE. He used to get dressed in his best every Rememberance Day and go and quietly pay his respects to his fallen comrades. He didn’t talk about it much and just wanted to live a quiet life with his family. The only time I saw him get angry was when the likes of your mate Farage popped up on TV hijacking the memory of decent people who suffered horrors we can only imagine.
You sit at home at three in the morning wanking off to videos of Farage and presume to tell people about patriotism. You’re an absolute embarrassment.
I find it very strange that you link so much negativity to patriotism and a sense of national identity, yet the military people who often extol characteristics of service to their country with an extremely deep sense of loyalty (patriotism and a sense of national identity) you are very supportive of. That's a good thing, but it does seem a little paradoxical and hypocritical on your part. I'm surprised you cannot see that.
I'm not going to get into an undignified virtue signalling, wall pissing competition about service family backgrounds. I dare say most families have their fair share of people that have served in the military and I'll simply say that involves my own.
What I don't understand, is your apparent obsession with linking so many ills in the country with the 'evils' of nationalism and patriotism.
There are a tiny, tiny minority of right wing nut jobs that are out there shagging the flag. Many people are simply pleased to live in the country with the privileges and virtues that we do, having a sense of patriotism with a little p. There are more people out there actively denigrating the UK and it's values on a daily basis, than those that would subvert it in a nationalistic sense, in my opinion.
I don't see the link between politicians and nationalism, so far as invading other countries goes (since Blair and the country learnt the lesson), and I see your linking of the two issues as disingenuous at worst and tenuous at best on your part. You may have had a point if you linked politicians and the subject of Brexit as something that was exploited to try and boost the vote from a few sheep who couldn't make their own mind up, but not everything is some hard right, nut job conspiracy from a frothing mass of xenophobic Brits and band of exploitative politicians.
I don't see all these people wrapping themselves in the flag, the colonial past, imperialism, glory days, wars et al, on a daily or highly visual basis. In fact apart from the aforementioned tiny minority of nutters, the people that seem to be living in the past, bringing it up ad nauseum and can't let it go are people like your self. Perhaps you are the one that presumes to keep telling everyone what patriotism is or shouldn't be.