Toon_Demon
Vital Football Hero
The line I recall seeing was pardew saying he couldn't stand in the way of a players ambition (words along the lines of manure coming in for cabaye and offering to make him the new paul scholes were used I think). Thing is, yes you can alan, by actually showing ambition yourself. If players think a club is going somewhere they'll stick around, if not (as is the case here) they'll fuck off if a good offer comes in for them