Will_Shahane
Vital Squad Member
Debating and disagreeing doesn't necessarily have to lead to arguments and insults.
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This is so true. Certain people that I know (not necessarily having a go at users on here, but just in general life) aren’t that fun to have discussions with. Because, you just feel as though they’re desperately waiting for you to make a mistake so that they can pounce on it and be smug. They become so fixated with ‘winning the argument’ that they forget to consider the other person’s view. People just need to chill out, man.
When I have a discussion with someone, I do so not with the intention of convincing the other person of my view, but simply to say my piece and give them an alternative interpretation that they may or may not wish to agree with. It’s much more enjoyable that way. If someone decides to agree with what I have said, then that’s fine. If they choose to maintain their original belief, that is also fine. There are far too many people in this world who think that their opinion is the only one worth having, and who are so caught up in their own insecurities that they feel the need to win an argument to demonstrate power.
... but that’s just my view ?.