The 5 stages of loss and grief

kefkat

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Come not only for a passing of a loved one. However they can also come for situations and difficulties in life where we have to change, or/and look at things differently.

Thought it might interest some of you. The 4th one, I know it as sadness though depression will/can come into it.

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The 5 Stages of Loss and Grief

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The stages of mourning and grief are universal and are experienced by people from all walks of life. Mourning occurs in response to an individual’s own terminal illness, the loss of a close relationship, or to the death of a valued being, human or animal. There are five stages of normal grief that were first proposed by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross in her 1969 book “On Death and Dying.”

In our bereavement, we spend different lengths of time working through each step and express each stage with different levels of intensity. The five stages do not necessarily occur in any specific order. We often move between stages before achieving a more peaceful acceptance of death. Many of us are not afforded the luxury of time required to achieve this final stage of grief.

The death of your loved one might inspire you to evaluate your own feelings of mortality. Throughout each stage, a common thread of hope emerges: As long as there is life, there is hope. As long as there is hope, there is life.

Many people do not experience the stages in the order listed below, which is okay. The key to understanding the stages is not to feel like you must go through every one of them, in precise order. Instead, it’s more helpful to look at them as guides in the grieving process — it helps you understand and put into context where you are.

All, keep in mind — all people grieve differently. Some people will wear their emotions on their sleeve and be outwardly emotional. Others will experience their grief more internally, and may not cry. You should try and not judge how a person experiences their grief, as each person will experience it differently.

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http://psychcentral.com/lib/the-5-stages-of-loss-and-grief/000617
 
As long as I am in the dear departed persons will, I don't suffer grief.

If I'm not, I tend to suffer disappointment and anger.

I think I grew hardened to such things when my tortoise tosh died after just two short days in my life as a kid.
 
Great thread Kat..

I have this saying that you haven't lived until you have experienced all 5 stages of loss and grief. It is something that we will all likely experience during our life times at some point.

If you take Any Winehouse for an example of "living" after she had experienced addiction. Her songs became a lot better after she had experienced the "dark side".
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The harder these stages "hit you" the more deeper you become in life; And it is actually a great eye opener in seeing things through the lens a lot differently.

Its a great lesson to learn in how you perceive people. You see Kat, I understand totally why you believe the things you do - its the life you have experienced. Some people just don't get it!
 
Green Tea - 28/10/2014 15:03

You see Kat, I understand totally why you believe the things you do - its the life you have experienced. Some people just don't get it!

and much like Lambert.... we go again.

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Its true Fear....All those stages of grief are just experiences. They change you as a person and how you perceive things in life.

Inner mental pain trumps physical pain 100 times over.
 
Green Tea - 28/10/2014 15:25

Its true Fear....All those stages of grief are just experiences. They change you as a person and how you perceive things in life.

Inner mental pain trumps physical pain 100 times over.

In that case, I sincerely hope that you have suffered massive mental pain on a regular basis.
 
That is probably the worst thing you have ever posted Heath. But I guess a guy of your composition cant help it.
 
So let me get this straight, there are 5 stages of loss and grief, but you may not go through all of them, so for some people there aren't 5 stages, and they may not come in any particular order.


 
Green Tea - 28/10/2014 15:57

That is probably the worst thing you have ever posted Heath. But I guess a guy of your composition cant help it.

LOL. I was merely wishing for you what you seem to want. Lets face it, we all want you to "get it. So, go, suffer and expand your mind.