Mappred, I understand your feelings and after reading through the Match Thread might even be tempted to join you, even from here it's depressing and I can't see it improving with MoN in charge. Your stepdads future is far more important than football and there's probably ways you may be able to help out. One of my sons in law had a similar accident a few years ago, worse in some ways as it included a bit of brain damage. Over the years since then the situation has improved out of sight to the extent that his life really is worth living.
In the basket case that is Forest, it won't always be like this. (Talk about living in hope !)