Its actually been a very tough and heartbreaking season, this last one. What, with the Leicester owner tragedy, Peter Skipper passing away, Jose Antonio Reyes death in a car crash last week, and now Justin Edinburgh passing away so suddenly yesterday. It shows more than ever that even though this game we are all enthralled in, this wonderful sport, of passion, desire, artistry, ups and downs, frustration, elation, disappointment, and at times, absolute magic, is just that...a GAME.
Its trivial. At times we all get carried away and lost in that fact, perhaps even the great Bill Shankly was lost in it all, great man that he was. But real life is more important. We all get carried away, we all have views on players...good...mediocre...keep...get rid...same with managers. Theres nothing wrong with opinions...football is a game of opinions. But some times we lose sight of things and end up falling out and bickering with each other. We all get frustrated at times, especially when you go home and think the lads haven't done themselves justice, or have not beaten someone who we expected to. But its just football. These are all human beings, and it should never ever get personal, or abusive. The reality is, any football manager or player goes out on that pitch trying to win the game. They really do. No manager ever sent his team out not to try. Sometimes it works out, other times the opposition manager and players out think yours...its like a game of chess.
I hope we can ALL, myself included, reflect on these things that have happened, the reality of these tragic passings, and next time someone comes and beats us when we dont expect it, and we feel annoyed and worked up, to take a deep breath and then think "ah well...we go again next time".
Its all trivial.
The older I get, the more I can see it. I won't fall out about football with anyone, Wigan supporter, or any other clubs. Life IS too short....these events have all shown this, only too well.