Sounds as though you had a pretty good intro to jazz, I tried hard to like modern jazz but eventually gave up, the more I tried the worse it seemed to get until I reached the stage where I'd actually formed a dislike to all of it no matter who was playing. On the other hand I grew to appreciate the big bands of the time, still feel compelled to play Duke Ellington's "Take the A train". Hits the spot every time.
I ended up buying a very expensive Yamaha stereo receiver 25 years ago and just using a pair of headphones, that way I don't annoy anyone else. Had it cleaned 2 months ago, it's as good as new, not often I spoil myself.