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Just read up on a facts web site, people hate on others for 3 reasons;

1. They want to be the person they hate.
2. They hate themselves.
3. They see the person they hate as a threat.

I dont hate anyone, so none the above apply to me.

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Yeah I thought that when I 1st read it but then if you break it down, you can fit most reasons into one of those 3 categories.
 
Neither do I hate anyone in this world. I don't have to like their behaviour. There behaviour can be abhorrent. It doesn't mean I have to hate them, just cos there behaviour is abhorrent.

I can't afford hate.
 
i hate criminals. i HATE paedos! with a god dam passion. i hate men who abuse women. i hate with all my will the killers of lee rigby. i hate extremists. i hate murderers. i could be here all day..... they all deserve to ve put tosleep.... painfully
 
Fear of something is at the root of hate for others, and hate within will eventually destroy the hater.

George Washington Carver, American scientist, botanist, educator, and inventor, righteous Dude.


Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.

Yoda, most renowned and powerful Jedi Grand Master, known for his legendary wisdom, mastery of the Force and skills in lightsaber combat, little righteous Dude.


There is a definitive, proven, documented mind-body connection. Hate is a negative emotion, it will mess you up mentally and physically, it produces nothing of benefit, it will destroy you.

And have absolutely no effect on the lives of those you aim your hatred at, you suffer, they don't, does that seem like a good idea to you?

Put like that, it's pretty pointless really isn't it?

http://www.keloland.com/newsdetail.cfm/healthbeat-the-health-effects-of-hate/?id=15620

 
The only thing I hate is these ISIS and other scum Islamic militants, who's main aim is to become numbero uno and sod the rest of humanity, ie anyone who disagrees with their ideals, be it man, woman or child.

But I suppose a few of you knew that already..... Lol



 
So reading between the lines, you want to be in ISIS.

Jeez, we have a terrorist amongst us.

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The Fear - 5/7/2014 16:59

So reading between the lines, you want to be in ISIS.

Jeez, we have a terrorist amongst us.

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Yeah, I'd quite happily be a terrorist AGAINST 'ISIS' if I was younger.... Lol

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http://science.howstuffworks.com/life/hate1.htm

"So our capacity for intense dislike of others of our species may date back as far as 150,000 years, when the first modern humans emerged. Why hate developed is a murkier question. There's some evidence that humans' ability to hate may actually be an evolutionary adaptation, one that made it easier for a group of hunter-gatherers to justify taking scarce food from competing groups."



Sometimes we just have to acknowledge we were built this way for a reason, and we can't change it overnight.
 
I do try to reach understanding rather than hatred. Some things it is near impossible to do though.

But do agree hatred can tare you up and is a very negative emotion.

Anger is a better emotion if used at the right times and also kept under control!
 
I hate the use of poor grammar. At this juncture I feel the need to point out that it is not possible to hate "on" anything, one just hates something.



 
The Fear - 5/7/2014 10:46

I do try to reach understanding rather than hatred. Some things it is near impossible to do though.

But do agree hatred can tare you up and is a very negative emotion.

Anger is a better emotion if used at the right times and also kept under control!
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All emotions have a place. The difficulty, for everyone to a greater or lesser degree is knowing how to use them and deal appropriately.

For instance: Anger tells us that something is wrong, we need to deal with.

It is when it isn't dealt with appropriately, that anger turns to hatred, resentments and an unhealthy level of fear.

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I am big on the correct language as certain words give off more negative and lingering emotions than others.

How to deal?. Something I have learnt, progressively, alot about in the last 11 years since recovery and therapy.

Resentment, hatred, bitterness and vengefulness only affect the person with them. It doesn't affect anyone else as much as it does the person who lets all those thoughts and unhealthy emotions live rent free in your head
 
Villan Of The North - 5/7/2014 10:53

I hate the use of poor grammar.
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I see a few people with this problem but I think its an easy one to tackle.

You are basically hurting on someone that may not have been fortunate enough to get a good as education as yourself. It can be quite damaging to one's self esteem to pick on someone for lack of education(or someone who has had a different education than yourself, would be better way to phrase it) and could be classed as a form of bullying.
 
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