That is the supreme irony. Trade becoming easier was the popular reason for joining in the 1970s and brought us closer to our neighbours, fostering friendships. Whereas the ever increasing politics, becoming ever more onerous, complex, costly and difficult, indeed did ruin the relationship - with the EU, not Europeans.
Where we craved more simplification and flexibility, over time we eventually became bound by regulation and a bible of directives.
I wouldn't be too sure that the relationship with the Europeans hasnt taken a nosedive by both sides trying to score political points at the cost of the "opposition". I have a good few friends living on the other side of the channel and have this past year had a good few conversations with most of them regarding the Brexit plus all of the political BS that it has brought with it.
To my utter dismay, but not to my surprise, it appears that outside of what we see on our television screens, where most things are dealt with in a reasonably civilised manner, it appears we as a population, are being demonised by local politician's wanting to score points at home, based solely because we, the British people, lit a fuse by opting to leave. We were the first lemming to jump in the river.
From what I've heard, there is a lot of unrest within the EU and quite a few of the countries - notably the ex east-block lands are worried that, as an entity, the EU is going to implode and to be honest, I think they may have a point. There are calls for referendums in both Denmark and the Netherlands based on similar reasons to ours and, should the EU be stupid enough to allow Erdogan and his consorts to be accepted as a member, then the poop really could start flying.
Should that happen, maybe we could start something new with Belgium, France, Italy, Luxembourg, the Netherlands and West Germany and call it the New European Economic Community. That could work.... n'est-ce-pas?