It's not the money / paying that is the reason for them being free. It is the difficulty for disabled getting to a pay machine, back to their car, reaching to display ticket, back out to wherever they are going.
Is the world really that mean now that we have to start targeting people already putting up with enough in life?
IF they made it very easy, had disabled payment machines etc, not so bad, but by the time you've done all that, why bother? The cost wouldn't be worth it would it? Why not just show some charity.
Would the guy from the last leg even park in disabled spaces? Doubt it. I was always allowed to, I rarely did. Only times I did was at the stages were even trying to stand up was a difficult job and to then have to walk to a pay machine, back to the car, then back to wherever I was going - especially if at a hospital.
I don't think people without disabilities have a clue the life many disabled people live to be honest. I'd rather think a few who don't need to take advantage of the kindness offered than make it difficult for those who desperately need help?
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I did see the flipside (as per your last question VOTN) where I know a few get to meet stars, get special privileges and become very expecting/need and in fact demanding of all this. I didn't/don't like that at all. That makes it look like all disabled people (I don't count myself as disabled these days, I've pulled myself away from such things, the marathon albeit agony being one of the challenges no sane person with my history would do :3: ) as needy or demanding.
Not all disabled are skint, not all need sympathy (empathy is ok!) or being condescended to so I'm with you on that for sure mate.
But as said, the parking situation isn't about being skint or indeed about the money. It's about the difficulties getting to a ticket machine. I can only imagine, in the freezing cold or if it is pissing down with rain, what it would be like to get out of the car, into a wheelchair, to a payment machine, back to the car... etc.
I know at times I used to look a right nutter (ok, ok, still do!) as I walked so slow it was like being a snail but 'looked ok'. Walking across a road it probably looked like I was trying to be 'the tough guy' and certainly it would look strange walking so slowly when getting soaked in the rain...!
So I think I get where you are coming from, most (I don't speak for all, or even most, but just my opinion) same as anyone don't want or like being patronised. A bit of help though, without being intrusive, is what is needed.
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I totally forget now, but I did see a site or a list of all the free things you could get being disabled once, none of it means tested. That sat very uncomfortably with me. You need to help the needy for sure, but the needy aren't 'just' the disabled.
A fine line all of this isn't it?